Although the Yoni massage can be extremely stimulating, the purpose is not to bring the receiver to orgasm. Rather, it is to relax the receiver and to bring emotions to the surface. Unlike modern sexual activity, there is no pressure to achieve climax. The focus is  entirely on relaxation without trying to reach a goal, although orgasm is often achieved during this part of the massage and should and can form part of the overall experience.  If at any time during the massage you achieve an orgasm, it is your choice whether or not to continue. Many women find that continuing with the massage produces several orgasms, each with increasing intensity. In Tantra, this is called "riding the wave." If you wish to avoid orgasm, breathing deeply and relaxing as much as possible can help to at least postpone climax. 

To prepare for the massage, the bladder of the receiver should be empty and  it also helps if the genital area has little or no hair because it makes for closer skin contact. We only perform the massage when you have a good deal of time and will not be rushed. Ensure that there is no possibility of interruption. 

The yoni massage can only be given as part of a full sensual massage as it is essential that we begin with other parts of the body to encourage relaxation.  I gently but firmly massage your legs, thighs, stomach, breasts and arms before venturing toward the vagina.  

Each step of the massage should be done slowly, gently and for at least a few minutes at a time.. . 

With the right hand (the right hand is used to balance the polarity of Tantra), I massage the outer lips of the  genitals, commonly known as the mound. With  thumb and index finger, I gently squeeze each lip of the Yoni, sliding  fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Then, I carefully repeat  this process with each inner lip of the vagina varying the pressure  and speed of the touch. 

I then begin to gently stroke the clitoris in a circular motion, clockwise and counter-clockwise. Next,  gently squeezing the clitoris between  thumb and index finger.  

Then,  a  middle finger is inserted into the Yoni. Much time is spent inside the vagina exploring and massaging. Varying the speed and depth of the finger, feeling inside the Yoni up, down and around. With  finger and palm pointing upward, I then bend the finger to make contact with the  G-spot, known as the "sacred spot" in Tantra. Other options during this step include  stimulating the clitoris with the  thumb and gently inserting a pinky (little finger) into the anus while the middle finger remains inside the Yoni. 

The yoni massage continues for some time and can include gentle kissing of the labia and clitoris. It is important that you fill out the information page if you require this part of the massage as this is both very intense and highly intimate and some ladies prefer boundries whereas others are happy to receive the entire experience. 

Again it is important that clients understand that although this part of the massage is highly stimulating and sensual it is not a prelude to sex. Also if at any time clients feel uncomfortable with the Yoni massage you can simply say Stop and I will do so straight away.